My dad raped me because he couldn't afford a prostitute: Sexually abused as a teenager, how one brave woman finally got her father jailed 30 years on. A woman whose father raped her because he couldn't afford a prostitute' has finally spoken out about her ordeal to encourage other victims to prosecute thier abusers. John from, Lagos , was tormented by her parent Oluwagbemisola Clement while she was a teenager but kept the abuse secret for nearly 30 years. The 47-year-old couldn't bring herself to go the police while her grandmother was still alive for fear that the details of the case would upset her.